I thought this was compelling, thoughtful, and was about to share until I hit 8. A real man is a man in and of himself — he should treat whoever he loves with respect. Agree completely. That threw me off so much!
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Gendered thinking is one of the most deep-rooted dualist constraints on the mind, allowing us to make the wildest of errors. If you are making a recipe that calls for milk but you are lactose intolerant, what do you do? Im guessing that you use a substitute that applies to you.
Same with this article, if your preference or orientation calls for an ingredient that you dont use replace it with your own version.
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This article is an amazing thought on a caring and intriguing list for a man to take good from and not to offend anyone. By letting small wording change your view on the article as a whole you are losing the point and failing in the object of being a real man. Obviously the women who took these list points to their own perspective, kudos to you!
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A much needed, wonderful article!! Your writing is so clear and easy to read. I just did a blog post about your article and referenced it. Thanks for sharing! Great list.
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Hi Mr. Pilon, I really liked reading your article and feel like we are in agreement about the many elements that are essential to real manliness. I live, work, and train at a martial arts school in Fujian Province China. It is the first school of its kind in the sense that we train under experienced Chinese masters, but the school is mostly for Westerners to come and experience Chinese martial arts at a school that also does a good job of maintaining itself and student living conditions.
I just wanted to put us out there a bit to you if you find yourself wandering China on your journey. There are a few people here that I feel could qualify as real men under your criteria, and a couple others that come close but still need a reminder here and there to keep them focused, humble, and moving down the path of positivity and goodness.
I have been living here for about two years, and figure that I will be around for a while, as Asia obviously has enormous potential in the present, and from the little experience I have here I do also feel like it also really needs some healing as well. When could you consider a man to be a slave to his anger? When is he considered disconnected from his anger? Would you consider it immature to use your fists to express your anger? Are all physical confrontations results of immature anger? Dee, a person, male or female, is a slave to anger when they let anger consume them or act out irrationally.
For example, the other day while walking back from the mail room on my apartment complex a young man was flying off the handle at a young woman, probably his partner. He was yelling incoherently. Stomping around…basically throwing a temper tantrum. I watched from a distance in case things got out of hand the protective side of 9. He eventually stormed off and she left in the opposite direction. I think a mature person would have better control over ones anger. Perhaps a better understanding of how to channel anger. Maybe even use anger in a positive way it is energy after all and energy can be redirected.
I would also encourage men to take up an art form other than the martial type whether it is music or the visual arts. Also what follows is to master a sport, which also contributes to the whole-ness of a person. It teaches one to work, to cooporate, as a team towards a common goal.
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He started well but from point number 8 he started showing his intellectual capability. I would add Taking Care of his Own to the list. The other attributes on this list will definitely prepare him for doing so, but it must be a high priority. Your article creates a romantic ideal that imparts an absolute standard that cannot be met, reinforcing a dis-empowering comparison so common in Western culture. How many countless young men have heard this before? Instead of challenging men to chase identity outside of themselves, how about starting with the recognition of the power that is in men to begin with and help them find the path of integrity and responsibility to realize its fullest potential?
With great power comes great responsibility. Honor men to take this on and they will. Thanks mate. I concur fully with this article. I am also on this quest of self-knowledge and conclude much the same.
I greatly enjoyed this article and say thank you for reminding me that my dream of living the world is possible. I would love to chat more about your journey. Do not be discouraged by those who want every article to be written for their particular preferences, gender, race or religion.
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Rest assured there are plenty of regular well adjusted. A real man is not offended by not being included by name in advice that still benefits their situation. Hi I read your 12 steps of what is man. I loved the way you put it together. Thank you for reminding.
I would love to meet you in person and hope to be friend. Yeah, what that other comment said, how can one get in touch with you? I never get this horny anymore. Keep up whatever worked to write this.
Though it did peak at the end of Number 7, and slowly work down. There are a couple weak ones in the 2nd half. I still want to have sex with you, so badly. I want to fuck and be fucked by you.
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I refuse to try to understand it. Thank you for this list. Real, masculine, hard working and mature men are rare and nearly extinct!!! Thank you so much for these valuble words. I really felt these words. I look forward for a change in me, these key points struck my heart felt so real to become a different person. You have given a beautiful article to all youth.
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